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Mohandas K. Gandhi, An Autobiography: The Story of My Experiments with Truth, 1957, p. 28.
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of harms which is contrary to the way of ahimsa, and “a lesser of two evils” approach to benefit
has no place in ahimsa: we must refrain from committing all harm and evil regardless of our
intentions. The challenge for us is to live the fullness of pure ahimsa, for as Gandhi said, “When
such Ahimsa becomes all-embracing, it transforms everything it touches. There is no limit to its
power.”
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For those who may doubt, even slightly, this premise I would encourage you to search
the large expanse of spiritual, religious, philosophical, and anecdotal writings that address the
transformative, far-reaching impacts of love -- especially pure love.
One of the challenges of living love is becoming aware of and addressing the imprint of
violence. Consider a child who has been fortunate to never be a victim of violence: such a child
may be open to a wider range of experiences, explorative, courageous, less inhibited, and
possibly happy. But if that child experiences even a single act of violence these traits may be
diminished forever, especially if no healing process occurs. With every subsequent experience
that child faces, she or he may be haunted by the possibility of harm and be less inclined to
engage experiences in which the potential for harm is evident or cannot be clearly deciphered.
The child may be less trusting, more fearful, more defensively closed-minded, and bound to
suffering -- often without realizing that these developed traits are a lasting imprint from violence.
The child may also carry these traits and tendencies into adulthood, sometimes crafting the
fundamentals of her or his adult identity around these traits and tendencies -- a regular
occurrence in many modern societies.
The imprint of violence also affects those who inflict violence upon others. An example
is the significant portion of modern American social dialogue addressing the lingering effects
war has on soldiers. Many soldiers exposed to combat struggle with a range of issues, such as:
responding to non-threatening situations with aggression and violence, guilt, self-destructive
behaviors (i.e. substance abuse, suicide), seeking power and control by oppressing and / or
harming others (i.e. abusive relationships), and more. Often these issues are more profound for
those who have participated in or witnessed extreme or repeated violence. There is much
wisdom in the saying, “No one experiences harm without being harmed.” And just because
modern social codes have made experiencing certain harms commonplace (i.e. rudeness, hurtful
words) does not mean we are not affected by such harms.