age desire to detach myself from all earthly things in order to devote
my whole soul to giving praise and thanks to Thee, my Lord, the living
source of my being. `052066
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Two men, who were perhaps one, wrote, about 1436, treatises on the
family and its governance. Agnolo Pandolfini was probably the author
of an eloquent Trattato del governo della famiglia; Leon Battista
Alberti, soon afterward, composed a Trattato della famiglia, whose
third book, "Economico," is so largely similar to the earlier treatise
that some have thought the two works were different forms of one essay
by Alberti. Perhaps they are both genuine, so alike because they
both based themselves upon Xenophon's Oeconomicus. Pandolfini's
performance is the better. Like the Rucellai, he was a man of means,
serving Florence as diplomat, and contributing generously to public
causes. He wrote his treatise toward the end of a long life, and
cast it into the form of a dialogue with his three sons. They ask
him should they seek public office; he advises against it, as
necessitating acts of dishonesty, cruelty, and theft, and as
exposing one to suspicion, envy, and abuse. The sources of a man's
happiness lie not in public office or fame, but in his wife and
children, his economic success, his good repute, and his friends. A
man should marry a wife sufficiently younger than himself to submit to
his instruction and molding; and he should teach her, in the early
years of their marriage, the obligations of motherhood and the arts of
household management. A prosperous life comes from the economical
and orderly use of health, talent, time, and money: of health
through continence, exercise, and a moderate diet; of talent through
study and the formation of honest character by religion and example;
of time through shunning idleness; and of money through a careful
accounting and balancing of income, expenditure, and savings. The wise
man will invest first of all in a farm or estate, so arranged as to
provide him and his family not only with a country residence, but with
corn, wine, oil, fowl, wood, and as many as possible of the other
necessaries of life. It is well also to have a house in the city, so
that the children may use the educational facilities there, and
learn some of the industrial arts. `052067 But the family should spend
as much of the year as possible in the villa and the country: