
to an ordinary ss man; when Baretzki asked him afterward what Himmler had
told him, all he answered was: ‘‘Do you think I know? I was so afraid that I
peed in my pants.’’
Höß’s adjutant, the Hamburg export merchant Robert Mulka, who was in
noway a primitive person, gave the Frankfurtcourt this recollection of Himm-
ler’s visit: ‘‘I had a discussion with the rfss about the strange behavior of ss
leaders. At the dinner table in the ss leadership home, an ss second lieuten-
ant leaned on the table with both arms. I sent an orderly to him and asked
whether he would not like a chaise longue. Himmler overheard this and said:
‘Great! That’s how I want my leaders to be! They shouldn’t just be brave at
the front but should be able to walk in patent-leather shoes in any salon.’’’
Two decades later Mulka remained proud that the rfss, as he still respectfully
called Himmler, honored him with two sentences. It was also characteristic
of Himmler that even toward the end of the war he concerned himself with
trivial matters while frequently leaving decisive problems unsolved. This re-
inforced the feeling in members of the ss that they were constantly under the
direct control of therfss.This is illustrated by the following unusual episode.
Rudolf Friemel, a Viennese, fought in the ranks of the international bri-
gades in Spain and married a Spanish woman. There was a civil wedding in
accordance with the laws of the Republic. After the defeat of the Republic,
Friemel, like most of his comrades, was interned in southern France and
finally landed in Auschwitz. His wife, who had given birth to a son and also
emigrated, moved in with his father in Vienna. Since the Franco regime did
not recognize civil marriages contracted at the time of the Republic, the Ger-
man authorities also regarded Friemel’s marriage as invalid. For this reason
Friemel’s father and his wife tried very hard to enable Rudi Friemel to marry
his wife again in accordance with German law, and theirpetition wound up on
Himmler’s desk. Himmler made a positive judgment; the father, the wife, and
the little son received permission to travel to Auschwitz, and Rudi was per-
mitted to let his hair grow. On March 18, 1944, he put on civilian clothes and
went to the Auschwitz registry, which normally issued only death certificates,
and the marriage was contracted in accordance with German law. Because
Himmler had personally given permission for this, the camp administration
granted Friemel unusual rights. The Identification Service, which took only
photos that filled rogues’ galleries, made a real wedding picture, and a room
in the camp bordello was placed at the disposal of the couple for one night.
n It is easy to demonstrate that it cannot have been just blind obedience that
caused the ss men of Auschwitz to carry out all murderous commands in-
stantly, for other orders were generally ignored. For example, sexual inter-
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